Body language says it all

Remember when we say something with our mouth but our body language is giving a totally different message. And then if the other person is smart to figure it out, you will either end up losing the communication battle or that person is going to embarrass you. Similarly, sometimes we just don't talk. We only give signals through our bodies. 99% of the time these signals are totally involuntary. What that means is that if we can catch those subtle signals, we can score big points. So when that girl in the corner in the bar is giving positive signals to you and you approach her, you have hit a home run. Or that shy guy who is secretly eyeing you but does not have the guts to ask for your number, but you know what is going on in his mind so you approach him and smile...the rest becomes history.

So learn at least the basics of body language: you can read what is on other people's minds and at other times you can send the right signals to whoever you want.

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