Rejection is common when dating; so get used to it

Lawrence in Danbury, Connecticut asks, “I am so depressed that I can not find a girlfriend. I have followed all the tips and suggestions that you have on LuvCube on how to find a relationship, but one girl after another has been rejecting me. I don’t even feel like trying any more and will just and see what happens next. Maybe I will get lucky. Is this approach the right one?

Actually, no. You might end up being single the rest of your life or get stuck with a girl that you don’t like but she was the only one interested in you, so you decided to marry her. You will need to learn to face rejection. Only when you will try with a dozen girls you will succeed with one. Learn to flirt so that the ones that are interested in you will see that as a positive signal and come your way. If flirting does not work for you with a particular girl, it will be just fine because you can simply say, “Hey I was just flirting with you!” Safe way to find out if a woman is interested in you!

You will need to continue to try till you reach your destination: to marry the girl of your dreams. Till then you should not stop. Be creative. Try in different places, use different options, and take the help of friends and family.

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