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Wednesday, August 03, 2005

Jennifer Aniston speaks out in Vanity Fair interview

Generally speaking divorce creates bitterness among couples. But that is not the case with Jennifer Aniston. While her ex-husband is riding the wave of Brangelina, Aniston still loves him, according to an interview with Vanity Fair. "I love Brad; I really love him. I will love him for the rest of my life," she says. Or in other words, it appears that Pitt "dumped" him rather than the couple agreeing mutually to a pleasant divorce as initial media reports indicated.

Aniston's interview highlights very clearly how a couple can never really erase their past relationship. When we get into a new relationship our new partners expect us that we can simply wipe all the memories and start over, but that is not the case. Most people always think of their previous relationships - after all they were in love with that person at one time and even planned on spending their whole life with them. (Related article: Marriage is a big responsibility)

In another startling disclosure, Aniston also dispute the rumors that disagreement over pregnancy was the cause for divorce. Of course, the whole Brangelina thing is another major source of pain for Aniston, particularly ongoing rumors that Brad Pill and Angelina Jolie may move in together or she may be pregnant. Talking about the spread in W magazine that shows the two as a happily married couple with children, Aniston says, "There's a sensitivity chip that's missing."

Finally let me mention something else here that I have been preaching for a while. When you do get out of a relationship, the last thing you want to do is to get into a new one simply because you are not used to being alone or you can't cope with being single. Aniston says that she is no rush to get into a new relationship right away. (Related article: Dating for divorced people)

The interview is a painful reminder of what a woman goes through in a divorce drama. My advice to all the men who are contemplating a divorce is to understand that a woman has a heart and you are not being a gentleman by hurting her. It is acceptable to have a divorce but you can be more sensitive about your partner.

Update December 2006: Jennifer Aniston and Vince Vaughn breakup

Recommended article: Dating a recently divorced man

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