Guys just don't always get what girls want

When it comes to men women relationships, it is absolutely correct to say that they are from two different planets. In other words, they don't always understand what the other wants because communication between a couple is a big challenge.

Let us take Kate's case. She likes a guy and has told him so. He has also said the same thing. "But, he ain't done anything about it," she says. "We hang around with the same group of friends and when I look at him, he always smiles. He texts me and phones me all the time but I want something more to happen. I don't think I can wait. Please help."

So here are the three possible scenarios and suggested approach.

1. He does not understand that you are interested in him romantically, though guys generally err on the other side. In any case, if he thinks that you are just a wonderful friend, then you have to send him more romantic signals so that he understands that you just don't want to be friends with him.
2. He is shy. It happens all the time. In that case, just take control of the situation (seduce him) and let him follow.
3. He is not single. He likes you as a great friend but is in a relationship. Are you sure that he is not in another relationship? If not, find out. And if he is not single, just have him as a friend. If he is, then take care of (1) and (2) above.

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