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Thursday, September 15, 2005

Renée Zellweger and Kenny Chesney divorce

What could have gone so wrong in just four months that Renée Zellweger and Kenny Chesney have decided to end their marriage? Here at LuvCube we are horrified when we heard the news. It was somewhat understandable that the fairytale romance of Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston ended - they were together for years and that can sometimes be a problem.

The only reason we can speculate is that since Zellweger married in a big hurry, the couple realized that the initial attraction was not deep enough to build a strong, long-term relationship. It is important to understand that love at first sight (something that happened to this couple when they met at a tsunami concert at which Chesney sang while Zellweger answered the phones), may not last too long if you are fundamentally two different people.

So what does it mean for you?

  1. Be careful when you are your partner want to tie the knot rather quickly. It is always a good idea to give at least a year of solid dating time before making your mind. Even living together before marriage is not a bad idea.
  2. Communicate with your partner. If either of you have the slightest doubt, there is nothing to be embarrassed about. It is very easy to like someone a lot but not enough to spend the rest of your life.
  3. If it is not working, end it fast. We support Zellweger and Chesney's decision in that respect. The longer you drag the process, the more bitterness it generates. If you realize that you are not compatible, you can part ways and still be friends rather than hate each other's guts.

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