Matt in Vancouver asks, "I really like or even love this girl in one of my classes. During class it is impossible for us to talk, but on the way out, we at least once a week take the same bus home, and usually have a nice conversation. She is like my dream girl (or at least it is what I think). She is beautiful, smart, and we even share some friends. I really want to ask her out, but I don't know if she is diggin me or not. The way I see it she might because I sense it. She really likes talking to me and smiles a lot. Can you please give me some advice on how I can find out if she likes me, what to say etc. I thought of using pheremones, but really I want to get her with myself without using any sorts of tricks."
Looks as if she is really interested in you from what you tell me. It is also likely that she is waiting to be asked out and you have just been too shy so far to make that move. What I would advise is that you suggest something non-romantic to do together to really make sure that you are not wrong in your judgment. For instance, an offer to study together, do a project together, or grab a cup of coffee after the bus ride (start a good conversation on the bus and suggest that you would really like to carry on the conversation - what do you say if we grab a cup of coffee?).
If she agrees, it is a fair indicator of the fact that she wants to spend time with you and is not being merely polite because you are on the same bus. Once you do that, hopefully you will get
closer to each other and at that point it will be appropriate to ask her out on a date.
And forget about the pheromones at this point. Pheromones work when you do not know the person and try to attract someone with the right chemistry to you in a place where it will be just the two of you. They also work when you are in the bedroom. With this woman, you have already gone this far. All you need right now is to approach her as a gentleman would and hopefully you will find love.
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