Love more important than age when deciding to marry

Cindy is a 22-year old and went for a job interview. Well, she didn't get the job but her potential boss fell in love with her (it was not an office romance and she was not technically dating a colleague). "It was love at first sight," she says. "He started calling me constantly, met my parents, and then proposed me to marry him. BUT, the problem is that he is 43 years. He looks young but I don't know whether our marriage can be succsessful? I don't know what to do! He is very clever, rich and I am a simple, poor girl who wants to have a happy life. I am so confused. If I marry him, my life will change, but I also wonder what will I do with this old man. Please help."

We have heard from many women who not only had a great marriage with older men but liked them better than younger men - these men were more mature, confident, and loving. The question you have to ask is If you love this man regardless of his age. If the answer is yes, then it makes a lot of sense to marry him. Though you must understand that he is more than 20 years older than you and you will have many opportunities to find men your age (you can sign up for free dating at our website) since you are still too young to get desperate for marriage. Being with someone who is quite older or younger than you does present some problems but so does a partner of your age.