Our love life is not exciting any more

Connie writes, "My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, and seem like our love life is fading. I try my best to keep it exciting. I mean I go to the extremes with this man, by role playing, dressing up, and doing things that I thought I would never do. I know he loves me but will this cause us to go our separate ways? Please give me some advice on this."

You know it is very sad to hear that there are men like your boyfriend and wonderful women like you - I would do anything to be with someone like you and this idiot simply does not appreciate how lucky he is. There are several reasons why this may be happening:

1. He has fallen out of love and is in love with someone else. Do you have any idea what is going on? Or if he has another girlfriend? Do a little investigation and if you come up with some information that he is cheating, it is time to breakup and move on.
2. He is stressed out or worried due to other issues in his life. It could be work related or may be caused by financial problems or even a family issue. Talk to him and find out. If there is a problem, be supportive in this difficult time.
3. You are doing things that don't appeal to him. For example, I love role play but I know there are men who are more into meat-and-potatoes type relationship with their lover - they simply are not interested in anything new. You have to find out what is it that he wants and do that. Do you really know what turns him on? When you know that you will do things that he likes rather than what you like though in the end I am not sure if you want to be with a man forever who simply cares about his desires and not about yours.