My fiance is paranoid and extremely jealous

Stacy writes, "My fiance has put a tracking device in my car and a recording device in my home. He constantly accuses me of sneaking around when I don't tell him of my every move. He has recorded every number from my phone to his. He even smells my underwear. Is this normal behavior or does he need help?"

Your fiance is definitely a paranoid man and his behavior is not normal at all. If possible, he needs professional help immediately, and definitely before the wedding.

I am assuming, though, that you have no history of cheating that he is aware of. If that is the case, he is definitely a person who does not trust you and as you might know, trust is the foundation of any relationship. I am in a happy marriage and my wife and I have private email accounts and do not monitor each other's phone conversations. Obviously, we have a simple rule about telling each other when we will be back at home (so that if one can make sure that the other is well) but there is no need to report where we are at every point of time. We also have separate phones and pocket money. I have never abused that trust and I am confident that neither has she.

So my suggestion for you would to be ask him to get help and put your wedding plans on hold. He may turn out to be a crazy husband and will make your life hell for you.