How do I attract the right kind of guys?

Laura writes, "I am a fairly attractive girl and attract quite a few men but I always seem to choose the wrong one and can't even seem to keep the bad one. Why?"

I think the good news is that you are attractive to men so if you can attract these men you can possibly attract the right kind of men.

When I was in college, I had a good friend, a wonderful girl and not only was she a bright student she was also a great companion (we were just friends and not dating). However, she always attracted wrong guys like you because there was a big disconnect between her preference for looks versus their economic status.

So she would fall in love immediately with a guy with long hair or piercings or leather pants or solid muscles or romantic attitude or great taste in techno music but then it turned out that most guys with great jobs as lawyers or bankers or professionals are not like this in appearance or tastes. So she would have a great time with them briefly but then they were really not the type who wanted a long term relationship with a professional woman like her.

Is it possible that you are also looking for what things that are not in harmony with who you are and what kind of man would like a long term relationship with you? Yeah occasionally people will have very unusual relationships but in most cases people find good, solid relationships with people that are more like them in most ways.