My ex and I both miss each other but we are in relationships

Maggie writes, "My ex and I broke up about 4 months ago; he is with someone else. I really miss him and I still love him. I am with someone else. I asked my ex if was he happy and he said I am straight. What does that mean? Anyways he comes over to my house at least once a week. I don't know if he is faithful to her or what. I have spoken to his current girlfriend and she is really nice. I don't know what his intentions are. To me if he was faithful to her he would not be at my house; right? But I don't know. I need advice."

A lot of people have a hard time moving on after a breakup, especially if the relationship lasted a long time. They often compare their new partner with the old one and realize what was good in the previous partner and wonder if breaking up was a good idea or should they get back together. So by visiting you, he is trying to make sure that you do not forget him. He might even be waiting for an opportunity to talk to you about getting back together.

I also get the impression that you feel the same way about him. If that is so, you should discuss the possibility of working on the problems that led to the breakup and see if you can get back together. If that is not so, then, you must ask him to stop visiting you because your new boyfriend will not like it and it will make it harder for you too to move on as well.