My fiance is addicted to cheating

Loretta writes, "My fiance is and has cheated on me. I asked him recently and he said no but I have seen texts to other women and I have seen pictures with other women several years ago when we were in a relationship but he still denies that he has cheated and he wants to know what I known to accuse him of this. I will not tell him what I know. He has been trying to see me since I told him over the phone that he has cheated on me but I will not see him. So tonight he told me to call him when I want to see him. This is how I feel if he does not admit he cheated. I do not want anything to do with him. What do you think of what I am doing? Should I do something different? I have been with this guy for 15 years. He is my only adult boyfriend. I want to get married before I get too old."

I am so sorry to hear that you are stuck with a man for so long who is addicted to cheating.

At this time you have some decisions to make. This man appears to be not reliable. So even if you give him on last chance, he might still go back to cheating. And you know very well that it is easy to breakup but so much more complicated to get a divorce.

I would suggest that you sit down with him and have another person (a family member or friend that you both respect) join you. Show him the evidence that you have and ask him what his response is. Maybe he has an explanation! If not, it maybe time to just say goodbye to him and move on. I am sure that you can find another man that will love only you and no one else.