How do I get back with my ex whom I still love?

Coney writes, "I met a man online and he and I hit it off very well. In the beginning, the sex did not last over 3 minutes and it really bothered him. He told me that he had not been in a relationship for over one year. After three months of dating, he pulled away from me and we did not have sex at all for over a month. I have a child and I have been divorced and this is the first man that I allowed to come around my 10 year old daughter. She did not like me dating and did not hesitate to show her frustrations around him. To sum it up, I broke it off with him because of no attention, however, he came around me and called me everyday. Additionally, we started doing business together. After we broke up, we continue to have a business relationship. It has been three years since we have broken up and we are still in business together. However, he continues to be around me for business which is blocking me from meeting anyone else and I think I still love him. I found out later that he is a diabetic and that causes sexual problems. This man is a good man and we are in business together and he does stuff around the house for me. People think that we are a couple, but we are just business associates. How do I move on or how do I get back with him.? I am confused, but I know I still love him."

As I read your story, it is very obvious that you are still in love with this man. Since he is also around you all the time and appears to like you, it just makes perfect sense that you two restart your relationship. Just talk to him and confess to him how you feel. You are simply denying yourself the joy of being with a man that you seem to love. I hope you will set your expectations the right way; the guy will continue to have health problems and his sexual performance may leave you a bit unsatisfied but as long as you are supportive and he seeks medical help, you will be fine.

Now I really don't think that I need to dwell on your question about how do you move on. It will be impossible because you still love this man. In case you do want to move on, you will need to make sure that your relationship is purely professional (it is going to be difficult but is not impossible). That means you only meet in professional settings and you will hire someone to do things around the house. You will also not spend even a minute with him if it is not needed for business. And then you will simply start dating like any other single girl.