What should I do if I suspect my husband is cheating?

Katrina writes, ""I think that my husband has been cheating on me and it really worries me, so I really want to find out everything I can about him. How to go about it?"

The best approach is to be calm right now as you collect all the evidence of adultery before you confront him. That way you can make sure that there is no misunderstanding. Having solid evidence will not only help you discuss this with him and will also help your case during the divorce proceedings. However, you might also find out that you were totally wrong about your doubts.

You can try to collect the evidence yourself by keeping track of his whereabouts, collecting credit card statements, phone calls, and surfing history on the computer. You can also try to follow him and try to get photos of him with his lover. It is also not a bad idea to seek the help of a private investigator.

Also it is not a bad idea to think why he may be cheating. Is it because he is simply a bad man or is it that he is not getting enough sex from you or something else has gone wrong in your marriage.