How can I stop feeling sorry for myself after breakup?

Cindy writes, "I fell in love with a guy I thought I would be with for the rest of my life ten years ago. He has broken up with me and tried to come back in my life so many times. Most recently, he did so after being in jail and after being married to another woman. He made me all these promises about finally doing it right and then we fell out and flipped everything on me like it was my fault. I don't want him back, but how do I get over what he did to me. I saw his new girl on his Facebook page and I'm just mad that he can move on so quickly, but I'm still hurt about the hurtful things that he said and did to me. Help!"

Now as we all know, bad things happen to us all the time and the best thing to do is to eliminate that negative energy. That is why it is very important that no matter what he says you ask him not to contact you. To forget him you will need to stop all types of communication with him. That also means not bothering to check out his online profiles and bothering to find out what he is up to.

If he has moved on, so should you. No reason for you to feel pity for yourself. Instead, as I like to tell my readers, buy some makeup, a dress or two, put some high heels on, and start having fun -- when you are happy inside, it will show and guys will beg to love you.