My boyfriend wants a platonic relationship

Adriana writes, "I in my sixties and have been with a man for 3 years who has no desire to be sexual with me. Because of the medicine he takes, the age he is and so on and so forth. I am a size 4 and stunning looking. We don't like the same types of music or interests but he is basically a nice guy and easy to get along with on a day to day basis.
I feel dead in this relationship. Most women in my age category don't have choices. Call me lucky but I look young enough to be my daughter's older sister. In essence shouldn't relationships be built on some form of commonality.
Your input would be greatly appreciated."

It is very obvious that you have a friend and not a romantic partner in this man. He appears to be a good man to hang out with but you should look for love and sex from another man.

Remember that not all men are looking for a romantic relationship and that is where this man is. In any case, you have only some things in common with him.

If you have tried to be intimate with him in the past or expressed your romantic feelings for him, it is time to have a chat with him and explain to him how important his friendship is to you and how you would like to keep it that way, but you would like to explore romantic relationship with someone else, and he should respect that. If he has a problem with that, then, he is not even a nice to guy to keep around (if you need a handyman around the house, search in the Yellow Pages).

And if he is a true gentleman, he will respect your choice and decision and might even help you find another man.