Should I meet my ex boyfriend after we broke up?

A girl who dated a married man briefly broke up with him on my advice. She writes, "He asked if we could see each other even if it's just for him to drop off the gifts he bought for me. What do you think? I have made up my mind, though, not to have anything sexual with him ever again. I plan to see him at a public place."

I do not think that it is a good idea for you to meet him or to accept any thing that he bought for you. It would be inappropriate to accept gifts after you have broken up. He is simply trying to manipulate you yet again into making you feel that you will now owe him something and those gifts will motivate you revive your relationship with him. Once it is over, it is over. So if you want to continue to seek my advice, please do not meet with him because I will be very disappointed in you.