My husband is searching for sex partners on the Internet

Dora writes, "My partner and I have been together for six years and we have two young children. He was married before and cheated with me. I felt bad but I never knew his wife. He left her and we started our life together. Now I found e-mails that are very graphic in nature. In these emails he has been telling a girl that he's free weekend nights when he works at a restaurant till about 5 in the morning. I asked him and he said it is just fun on computer that girls find him and try to trick them for his credit card. I don't know what to do. I have a gut feeling something is happening. Or did happen in the past. I'm scared; I really love him. Do I forgive and forget? I just don't know."

Married men looking for sex partners on the Internet

You sound like a smart woman and that is why I don't expect you to believe his BS.

I am a married man myself and spend my whole day on the computer but no girl ever finds me and then talks sexy to me. No, it does not happen. And I think no one with a functioning brain responds to spam messages asking for credit card number in order to talk to girls on the Internet.

The reality is that he is trying to hook up with other girls, or even prostitutes for sex. Now the question that you have to ask him is why is this happening. Is it because he is addicted to sex and is just an unfaithful man or is it that he is sex starved at home?

Many men often find that they are not attracted to moms with young children because they are too tired and do not take care of themselves any more. That is when they start looking for sex elsewhere.