Janice is not new to the phenomenon of older women being in relationship with a younger man - actually, she was married to one who was eight years younger than her. After divorcing him, she has once again fallen in love with yet another younger man and what makes the situation a bit delicate is that it is one of those military men relationships that have the Iraq effect. "I have no problem with the age difference (and neither does he - he is actually mad about me) this time but as I approach my 40th birthday, I wonder if I should be in a relationship with a 22 year old man. I am really afraid that he would leave me for a younger woman later on. Please help me deal with this," she writes. (Related: How to find mature women)

Relationships like yours are way more common than you think and these men are not leaving their wives to be with younger women, as many women like you suspect. In any case, don't you think that there is a possibility that even if this man were your age, he could still dump you for a 22-year old? It is important for you to understand that if he was genuinely not into you, he wouldn't waste his time on you - it will be very easy for him to date someone in his peer group.

If he wants you this bad, throw this idea out of your mind, feel equal to him, and don't worry so much about the future. No one has seen it, and if we keep wondering what could go wrong in the future, we will find it hard to live in the present as well as we should. So do your best, enjoy the love, and make each other happy.

Since medical science still has not yet come up with birth control options that would appeal to both men and women, we live in a world where either people engage in risky behavior or use something that is not their first choice. That is why the Ortho Evra birth-control patch was initially considered as a blessing since you didn't have to worry about taking the pill on time.

Well, it turns out that Johnson & Johnson did not tell you the whole story. According to the FDA, you are twice as likely to get a clot in the lungs and legs if you use the patch. In other words, it is time to sit down with your doctor and review your birth control options, particularly if you are also obese.

And if you have been hurt, you can join the thousands of other women who are suing the manufacturer and demanding compensation. Time to find an attorney.

Men must lose weight to improve bedroom performance

One of the things that men constantly worry about is their performance in bed, and rightfully so. Not only for the sake of the relationship but also for their self esteem, it is important that they can satisfy their women.

While many men do not always make the association, obese men gradually lose their ability to please their partner. The problem could range all the way from not being able to last longer to ED. But there is good news. They can recover their bedroom capabilities by simply losing weight - with one condition. They have to do so through diet and exercise rather than popping a pill like Meridia or Alli.

Professor Gary Wittert of the University of Adelaide in Australia found the link between between natural weight loss (with a very low calorie diet) and the rapid improvement in sexual and lower urinary tract problems.