How to date a Latina?
Mark, a 26-year old, lives and operates a business in Puerto Rico and has found instant attraction towards an 18-year old local Latina. "We have been dating (if you are single, try our free dating website) for only 2 weeks, but I have liked her since the moment my eyes saw her, and I am 99.9% sure that the feeling is mutual. I am ready to tell her how I feel about her. There are a lot of gringos here, and a lot of them come here for a few months and leave. Should I tell her that I am here for the long run and Puerto Rico is my home, and I am not going anywhere. Or should I just leave that out until later. Would you recommend I just follow my heart with this?" he asks.
It will be nice to hint about your long-term plan by talking about your business, the fact that you own it, and how you would love to spend the rest of your life in this beautiful island growing your business. I think considering that you are not a tourist, she knows that you are there long term.
Since you have been dating for just two weeks, I would say that you want to keep it subtle and only give hints at this stage rather than say "I like you so much I can marry you now." You know what I mean. Emphasize that you enjoy her company and would love to spend more time together with her. Then wait for her to respond. This should be more than enough for this date. As you get to know each other more, you can be more open about your emotions.
It will be nice to hint about your long-term plan by talking about your business, the fact that you own it, and how you would love to spend the rest of your life in this beautiful island growing your business. I think considering that you are not a tourist, she knows that you are there long term.
Since you have been dating for just two weeks, I would say that you want to keep it subtle and only give hints at this stage rather than say "I like you so much I can marry you now." You know what I mean. Emphasize that you enjoy her company and would love to spend more time together with her. Then wait for her to respond. This should be more than enough for this date. As you get to know each other more, you can be more open about your emotions.
Labels: casual dating, latina
Thursday, July 26, 2007
What to do when your insurance company refuses to cover your treatment?
The worst companies you do business with our the insurance providers, particularly your health insurance company. They might have warm and fuzzy ads on television, but when they have to pay your medical bills, they are not thrilled. If you get really sick, be prepared to be mistreated by your health insurance company, which will do whatever it can to make your life miserable while you are dealing with your illness.
Watch this video to find out what are your rights and how to deal with an insurance company when it does not want to honor its contract with you.
Watch this video to find out what are your rights and how to deal with an insurance company when it does not want to honor its contract with you.
Labels: health, health insurance
How to buy a home when interest rates are high?
For couples considering buying (or refinancing) a home, there may be one more headache to deal with: more scrutiny by mortgage lenders. In the past, while the banks may have been too liberal, now the pendulum has swung the other way. After problems in the sub-prime mortgage market, they are now strict with everyone demanding more documents and looking at credit scores more closely. So be prepared with documentation and if your credit history is less than stellar, you might have to pay higher interest rates.
Labels: mortgage, personal finance, refinancing
Credit scores for couples; how to improve
Whether you are single (why don't you join our free dating website) or in a relationship, your personal finances should be healthy. As couples it is even more important to keep your money issues resolved since money can be a big reason for friction. In order to keep your money matters in control, you have to look at your credit score carefully, since it affects your borrowing ability: how much can you borrow and at what interest rate.
So how can you achieve a high credit score?
Watch this excellent video to learn a few simple things that if you do over a period of time, you can save a lot of money in the long run.
So how can you achieve a high credit score?
Watch this excellent video to learn a few simple things that if you do over a period of time, you can save a lot of money in the long run.
Labels: credit score, money, personal finance
Dump your fat boyfriend?
If you and your partner are both big and you are fine with it, well, good for you, though, I would still recommend that you workout, go on a diet, and try to lose weight. Your doctor will say the same thing.
What if you are in good health but your spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend is fat? If possible, this is the perfect excuse and the time to end the relationship. A new study says that if you cannot make your obese partner lose weight, you too will become overweight. Not good.
What if you are in good health but your spouse or boyfriend or girlfriend is fat? If possible, this is the perfect excuse and the time to end the relationship. A new study says that if you cannot make your obese partner lose weight, you too will become overweight. Not good.
Labels: health, lose weight, obese, overweight
Monday, July 23, 2007
The ultimate gift of love
While the value of love cannot be measured in money, but expensive gifts definitely help. Sometimes only a nice greeting card does the trick or a smile or a kiss but we all welcome expensive gifts. In case you are dating or are in a relationship with someone who has it all, she or he may not have this diamond-encrusted, platinum tequila bottle. The price? A mere one and a half million bucks. I am sure the result will be remarkable.
Friday, July 20, 2007
Virgin America Airline review
Have you ever traveled by Virgin Atlantic? Maybe you took a flight to go to London. Like Southwest Airlines, they are fun to fly, but that is where the similarity ends. They also provide a lot more comforts - more like JetBlue Airline. Until now you could fly Virgin only if you lived in Europe or flew to/from Europe. The good news for us here in America is that this cool airline (now called Virgin America) is here. They offer very low fares, so apart from checking other airlines, make sure that you look at them as well. I love their food ordering system too. Whenever you feel like snacking, simply order it on your seat electronically and a smiling flight attendant shows up with your order.
Labels: travel, vacation, virgin america
Wednesday, July 18, 2007
How to succeed with dating online
If you are single (well, it looks like a lot of people even in relationships seek other partners), chances are that you will or have already looked online for relationships. By the way, if you want to try online dating for free, you are welcome to join our free dating website.
Unfortunately, finding a partner online is much more competitive than finding someone at a local bar - there's just too much competition. It is like finding a job online; if you don't stand out, no one will even look. All the way from writing your personal ad to having professionally taken pictures to the way you communicate can make a huge difference to your chance of succeeding in finding that perfect woman or man. Here are some tips from the gurus of internet dating.
Unfortunately, finding a partner online is much more competitive than finding someone at a local bar - there's just too much competition. It is like finding a job online; if you don't stand out, no one will even look. All the way from writing your personal ad to having professionally taken pictures to the way you communicate can make a huge difference to your chance of succeeding in finding that perfect woman or man. Here are some tips from the gurus of internet dating.
Labels: dating, free dating, love, romance
Monday, July 16, 2007
45 year old man marries 18 year old woman
I hear about relationships with big age gaps almost every day but there are times that some age gaps are bigger than what we are used to. Jim is 45 and is ready to marry an 18-year old. "It happened by our luck only. I was not looking for a relationship like this but we both love each other now. Am I wrong? Please tell me," he asks.
Indeed, there is no numbers counting when you fall in love. Since the two of you are both in love, get rid of any doubts you have. This is not the time to think since age is just a number. Indeed, you may have some problems in the marriage because of the age gap but I hear from couples every day who have problems - they also happen to be in the same age bracket. In fact, perfectly normal couples in every respect keep getting divorced or breaking up. This is simply a myth that people with wide age gap have any more problems than couples in the same age group. Of course you will need to make adjustments (the music that you like may not be the same as she does, for example) and so will she, but that is advice couples of all ages need. A relationship is about acceptance and compromises and as long as you do that you can have a beautiful relationship.
Indeed, there is no numbers counting when you fall in love. Since the two of you are both in love, get rid of any doubts you have. This is not the time to think since age is just a number. Indeed, you may have some problems in the marriage because of the age gap but I hear from couples every day who have problems - they also happen to be in the same age bracket. In fact, perfectly normal couples in every respect keep getting divorced or breaking up. This is simply a myth that people with wide age gap have any more problems than couples in the same age group. Of course you will need to make adjustments (the music that you like may not be the same as she does, for example) and so will she, but that is advice couples of all ages need. A relationship is about acceptance and compromises and as long as you do that you can have a beautiful relationship.
Labels: age gap, marriage, older man, relationship, younger women
Our love life is not exciting any more
Connie writes, "My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, and seem like our love life is fading. I try my best to keep it exciting. I mean I go to the extremes with this man, by role playing, dressing up, and doing things that I thought I would never do. I know he loves me but will this cause us to go our separate ways? Please give me some advice on this."
You know it is very sad to hear that there are men like your boyfriend and wonderful women like you - I would do anything to be with someone like you and this idiot simply does not appreciate how lucky he is. There are several reasons why this may be happening:
You know it is very sad to hear that there are men like your boyfriend and wonderful women like you - I would do anything to be with someone like you and this idiot simply does not appreciate how lucky he is. There are several reasons why this may be happening:
- He has fallen out of love and is in love with someone else. Do you have any idea what is going on? Or if he has another girlfriend? Do a little investigation and if you come up with some information that he is cheating, it is time to breakup and move on.
- He is stressed out or worried due to other issues in his life. It could be work related or may be caused by financial problems or even a family issue. Talk to him and find out. If there is a problem, be supportive in this difficult time.
- You are doing things that don't appeal to him. For example, I love role play but I know there are men who are more into meat-and-potatoes type relationship with their lover - they simply are not interested in anything new. You have to find out what is it that he wants and do that. Do you really know what turns him on? When you know that you will do things that he likes rather than what you like though in the end I am not sure if you want to be with a man forever who simply cares about his desires and not about yours.
Labels: intimacy, relationship
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Butt facials for couples
Earlier I did a whole series of articles on how to get the perfect butt, starting from butt lift and butt augmentation to butt implants to an exercise routine for the butt. Well, to get that perfect looking butt, couples are doing something else: a butt facial or simply a facial that is now given to this important part of the body. I find them a little expensive but so are most spa services, but definitely a great way to take care of a part of the body that is so often ignored. And trust me, when it comes to making love, this part is sensitive for most of us. So once you return from the spa, give it some extra attention.
Labels: butt, facial, personal care


