If I were God for one day, the first thing I would do is to make a couple fall in love so much when they decide to have a child that they will never get a divorce (or breakup since it is no longer the case that only married people have children). While divorce is hard on both partners, studies say that it is even harder on a man than a woman, and it is a traumatic experience for children, particularly if they are not adults (as is most often the case).

Divorce is also typically the end result of years of fighting and that results in a lot of bitter feelings towards each other. It is not surprising for couples to not even want to see each other's faces when one day that took the vow to be married till death (How to make your marriage work). Unfortunately, with 50% marriages ending in divorce, there is not much we can do about this reality except to discourage people in doubt about their relationship from having children in first place, but if they do, making sure that regardless of how much they hate each other, still love their children.

While millions of couples live in sexless marriages, most of us manage to live lives full of fulfilling physical intimacy. Yes, men often complain of libido differences and women complain about men not being good lovers, but in the end, it still works out for most couples.

A latest study points out that contrary to what we might like to believe, seniors have a lot of action in bed. What is most remarkable about this study is that healthy couples have better sex life than those with health problems.

So what can you do to be active in the bedroom?

1. Stay fit.
2. Make time for it.
3. Eliminate stress.
   
4. Throw out wrong ideas. There is no age at which you should stop.
5. Introduce variety. Try new positions. Take a vacation.
6. Use tools: lingerie, videos, massages, role play, whatever works for you.
   

If you are having difficulty finding love, there may be nothing wrong with you - in a world where everyone can be choosy, you probably live in a place where there just aren't enough people to choose from. A very clever solution is try to try online dating. Then the world is your potential market, provided you are somewhat open-minded about race, skin color, etc.

By the way, if you are still single, you are welcome to join our completely free dating website.

With Internet dating, you simply create an interesting profile, put photos and video, hang out in the chat rooms, and then respond to people who approach you. If you are a man, I also encourage you to approach men and women that interest you. While you do not have to start your personal website or blog, it is not a bad idea to do so since you will attract even more prospects. That is exactly what Allan Wills did and eventually found a great relationship. Here is a video of his story.

If you are a couple that has done everything right and have reached a point in life that you just want to enjoy the rest of your life without any worries and responsibilities, then you have earned it. Not many couples reach this point because there is always something left to be done, and sometimes it is for the sake of children on grandchildren. If you have been financially responsible most of your life, one option to enjoy the last phase of your life is to take out a reverse mortgage, but be careful, the fees can be extremely high since the lender is making a wild guess about how long you will live. Watch the video to find out what to be careful about.

Well, when I wrote how to get a butt like Kim Kardashian, I mentioned that she attributes hers to her Armenian roots. But take a look at this photo of Ana Ortiz. I guess she might attribute it to her Hispanic roots. So what about all those who are neither Armenian or Hispanic. Well, in that case,here are some tips on how to get a big butt.

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Exercise to get a tight butt

To keep a relationship passionate, a couple must spend quality time together, and as they say about reaching a man's heart through his stomach, food is important. But as everyone will agree with me, by the time you end up cooking a gourmet meal at home, half the passion is gone. Of course you can eat at a restaurant but what if that restaurant was designed exclusively for couples and every dish had an aphrodisiac in it?

That is exactly what the Aphrodisiac restaurant does (or you can buy oysters fed with Viagra). The couple sits on a table that reminds them of a luxurious bed and then the fun begins. Strongly recommended when you are in Los Angeles (10351 Santa Monica Blvd; phone number 310-282-8870). Here is a video.

Since there was so much opposition to the approval of the "Morning After Pill" or RU-486 or Plan B, that when it was finally approved, its opponents engaged in an organized campaign to spread rumors about it. While some of the concerns were reasonable, most were so ridiculous that scientists simply had a good laugh at the stupidity of the opponents.

Now a very comprehensive study shows that if for any reason a woman did not take her birth control pills, got pregnant and chose to have an abortion using this method in the privacy of her home, it has no more risks of complications later on than if she had a surgical abortion. It is to be noted that everything has risks: birth control patches too have risks though the pill that stops menstrual cycles altogether has been found to be very safe.

For couples like us who like to entertain a lot at home, nothing is easier (and fun) than offering grilled food. During the days when it is OK to be be and eat outside, having grilled food not only makes it easy to cook but also the grill can become a place for conversation. Even if you have other dishes on the menu, we like to have the main dish cooked on the grill so that it is hot, fresh, and easy to cook while you chat with your guests.

But what type of grill should you buy? And what to do so that your grill always cooks delicious food? To find the answers to these questions, watch this video.

The problems in the sub-prime mortgage business means that everyone has to suffer, even people with high credit score, stable income, and a solid savings account. It can be difficult for some people on the margin to find a mortgage or refinance their existing mortgage, but if you follow the tips in this video, you can still come out on top. The important thing is to keep your credit history clean, be very careful about paying bills on time as you get to the point to refinance, and then do your research. Start online and then pick up the phone to make the calls. The more information you are armed with, the better you will be able to negotiate.

A few years ago when interest rates were low, a lot of us got ARM loans that were set to expire in 5 or 7 years. At that time, we did not expect that there would be a war or that economy will change so much that the interest rates will go up this high. Now is the time that these interest rates are reseting and for some people that monthly mortgage payment may go up significantly.

While the Fed may cut interest rates if the economy really starts to hurt, but don't count on it. Plus, the Fed tends to cut rates in 0.25 or at the most 0.50 increments. In other words, it can take a lot of time before we see a real drop.

So should you refinance your home mortgage? Generally it is a good idea and to tell us how to do it right, here is a good video from Andrea Coombes.

When it comes to having the perfect butt, move over Jennifer Lopez and Jessica Simpson. The honor now belongs to Kim Kardashian. She is probably the most curvaceous woman in Hollywood. Naturally, people who have way too much time imagining things claim that she has butt implants.

That is not the case, according to Kim. "I'm Armenian; you should see all the women in my family," says Kim in an interview. "The (Armenian) women have bigger breasts and bigger butts." Good for them but if you are not Armenian like me, here are some tips on how to get a big butt.

Butt augmentation

Butt lift

Butt facials

Exercise to get a tight butt

Women definitely want to find out what a man wants. The answer is not an easy one because these are as many things that men are looking for as there are men, but regardless, certain traits are common for all men. Indeed, when it comes to men seeking out women, good looks are a good starting point but from then on men are looking for the same things that women are looking for: confidence, sense of humor, good company, good habits, etc. (Related: What do women want from their husbands?)

It is fairly obvious that modern men no longer look at women to be homemakers (and accordingly have traits that will help them become those); they are looking for life-long companions that will be interesting, fun to be around, and be their friends. Watch this video to find out what men really want.

A relationship with a military man is a tough one, and even tougher in the midst of a war. The separation can be long and lack of news can be nerve-wrecking. So it was nice to see couples get together in Times Square in New York to recreate the scene from over 50 years ago when a sailor kissing a nurse was photographed. Here is a photo of Ben Summer kissing Elizabeth Booher after he proposed to her. So when you are ready to marry, make sure that you make it special. Women often remember their proposal more than their wedding day.

Many couples find that they don't spend enough time together (or as a family if you have children) and if you choose to spend whatever time you have at home, you might end up watching television or surfing the Net or fixing things around the house. That is why in order to keep your relationship strong, do something that "forces" you to be together. So to all the other activities for couples, you can add one more: geocaching. It is new for me and only recently I have tried it out with my wife, and if you want to find out what it is, watch this video.

Should I use a travel agent?

I haven't used one in a long time, but there are occasions when you may have to find a travel agent (yes, they are still in business, though they are fewer and hard to find). So don't even bother calling an agent if you are simply going to Cancun. Just pick an airline on a website like Kayak and then make a reservation at a resort.

Related: How to find cheap travel deals?

I have found that travel agents can be better for traveling to remote countries or for complex itineraries. I also do not like to book a hotel through a non-US based website. Let us say that you are going to Bora Bora from St. Louis but also want to stop by meet your cousins in New York and London. If you tried to book this ticket yourself over the web, you will pay a lot more. A travel agent can actually move things around and while you might end up on different airlines and several tickets, you will pay just a little more than a standard St. Louis-Bora Bora ticket.