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Lacie writes, "I just started dating a wonderful 44 year old divorced man. He was married for 16 years and was mentally, physically, and emotionally "done" the last 5 years of the marriage. He's been divorced for a year and has dated previously before he and I met. He is really a sweet man who knows what he did wrong and what he settled for in his first marriage and wants to make things different

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Gilbert writes, "I like a married woman but I don't think she is interested. How do I find out. I just want to keep it casual, NSA. She is a really cool woman otherwise but I am afraid I will upset her if I tell her I want her."As you said, she is not interested, but what makes you think so. Remember that many married women simply assume that no one will be interested in them (though vast

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Stacy writes, "I am a 22 year old female who has been through enough to be in my 30's. In short, I dropped out of high school, got into drugs really bad, had a relationship with an older man (15 years older), stayed with him for 4 years bouncing on and off drugs until I got pregnant. We had a beautiful son, split up because as a sober couple, we weren't the same people. I moved back towards my

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Sheryl writes, "I am 27 year old single woman. I made the mistake of rushing into a relationship with someone I met and liked very much at first but was completely wrong for me. I stayed single for so long before that to evaluate myself and my behaviors and not make mistakes like I had made in this past, and this time around I really learned a lot and don't plan on ever rushing into any

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A cougar writes, "A 23 year old saw me in a local mall and managed to find me on a dating website. He pursued meconsistently and finally I agreed to meet him. He is a man at this young age which is not always the case. He has goals and is achieving them. He is a good listener and a caring person and has in a short time touched me deeply. We met a few times, and the relationship came to a point

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It is interesting to note how we hold ourselves from going all the way because of our hidden fears. We are constantly watching over our shoulders before acting – is my behavior acceptable? Will I be ridiculed for doing this? What will happen if I do this? I have felt that we do this all the time with our relationships, especially as adults. With our parents and siblings we are more open

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A reader shares his thoughts on preference for women."I feel comfortable with Asian girls. Yet I can't feel anything with Western women. They are sexless to me. My last Western girlfriend was in 1988. A long time ago! Now, the mere sight of an Asian girl excites me. She excites me because of her physical features. They enchant me deeply and fascinate me beyond sensibility. As I told you the

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I wanted to share this story from Raymond, who is struggling with his emotions regarding an ex girlfriend:"This woman and I first met when she was 16 and I was 21. Now she is 41 and of course I am 46. We were lovers from an early age but we lost touch when she went overseas to England to live. We got back in touch in our mid -twenties and I even pursued her to Europe where we spent an idyllic 2

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Mark wanted to share a love letter that he wrote to a woman that he has admired for a long time, even has had a crush for years, but never got the courage to even approach her."I have been for quite a while figuring out how to write to you, especially a love letter. My mind tells me - to love someone, you need to know each other. But you know I have some times fallen in love without even knowing

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Emily writes, "My husband and I are otherwise doing good in our marriage, he always cares a lot about me. I think it is me who has the problem that I am not so happy in our marriage. I think I am just lost in the big world. I married my first lover, and I didn't know the feeling of falling in love with others. I found too many good men after marriage. If I have to figure out what's wrong with

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Allison writes, "I have had this friend for about 4 years and we have gone through some ups and downs due to each others romantic relationships. We clicked right off the bat and became very close very quickly. I always had a little crush for him, but I respected our friendship too much to profess any feelings. I got into a relationship about 7 months into our friendship and I feel he felt

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Natalie writes, "My husband and I had a relationship for almost 5 years and we married one year ago. I really love him. I can sacrifice anything, including my life to keep him safe and happy. At the same time, I have to admit I am just a little bit tired of our relationship. I can't find passion any longer. I want to find another relationship and this kind of thought make me feel guilty. I

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Gary writes, "I am a 24 year old man and I have a close friend of 15 years. He has been married for almost 5 years. I am very close with him and his wife, since they have been dating since high school. Both of them had told me that they have an 'open relationship' and don't mind sleeping with others outside the marriage. To my knowledge, this has never occurred, but they're up for it. The

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Amanda does not like the way her efforts at dating and having a relationship have turned out:"I hate that I can’t keep a guy. I don’t go out looking for a guy; it just happens that way. Every year since I was a freshman in college, I have had a different guy almost every year. And it hurts because I don’t date them instantly; I wait 3 to 4 months of talking before I take the next step of

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Dora, a Hispanic girl obsessed with Asian guys, says, "I am a nurse so I know plenty of Asian guys (there are a lot of Asians in the medical field). I also have lots of Asian friends; FRIENDS sadly :-(. Most of them date Asians; Asian girls are tough competition; they are so pretty. At the moment I think I'm going to take like a little time to get myself to a healthier weight. Maybe that way I

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Liz dated a married man and then broke up with him after realizing that he merely wanted her as a mistress and was not interested in a long term relationship with her nor could she force the married boyfriend to divorce his wife. He has insisted on seeing her and she has been tempted. "I really don't want to see him again, but I know it's easier said than done. He is a computer science

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A mature woman that loves attention from young boys, as she calls them, writes:"I continue to get attention from 20 year olds - and am online with a 24 year old Italian who seems quite smitten - even webcammed with him this morning before I combed my hair to be told I was very pretty! It certainly does my ego good - especially with my boyfriend coming next week. Older women have a lot to offer

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An older woman, or a cougar, that enjoys dating young dudes writes:"I am a mature woman and I find that the young men are a lot of fun and boost my spirits. I had a wonderful conversation with a new one last night who said girls talk mainly about shoes and purses and that it was delightful for him to meet someone who he was attracted to and who could converse. For a 25 year old, he had an unusual

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A reader shares her concerns about differences in communication styles with her partner:"My boyfriend and I seem to trust one another with regard to other people. It is the differences in communication styles which are more of a problem for me. I am an instructor and used to regular communication, schedules in fact, and regular feedback. Obviously that is not how he functions. I have sent him one

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Megan writes, "I met this guy about one month ago. He came in to deliver a package (Fedex). He started having conversation with me. He seemed pretty cool and because I just got out of a little fling with a guy that was 11 years older than me, well, I decided that I should start getting out meeting people and here he comes along. Anyway I was telling him about my birthday and he asked, "How old

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Marcela writes, "I absolutely adore Asian men. I want to marry one and having . Now my question is How do I find one? Are they attracted to Hispanic girls?"Yes, as an Asian man myself I can say that I love Hispanic girls. Actually I am married to a Latina.So, if you are interested in Asian guys then you need to be where Asian men are. If you live in a town with an Asian population, you have a

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Erin has met someone online and through emails, chat, and webcam, they have been talking for a while now. The relationship has reached a point that her online boyfriend has decided to visit her and she is nervous about their first meeting. "Could you expand a bit more for me about the pitfalls of first meetings? Looks are one thing. I know. I like his looks in the pics I have but, honestly,

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Courtney writes, "I have been in and out of relationships for some time. I am now in a relationship where I actually really like this guy but my insecurities and low self-esteem is ruining our relationship. I did tell him before we started to date that I am very sensitive and take everything to heart and that it doesn't take much to make me upset. I have been trying to change my ways but I need

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Megan writes, "I read on your blog that you had a long distance relationship and am looking for a little advice/feedback. Robert, my long distance boyfriend that I met through online dating but am yet to see him in person, and I had a couple of significant misunderstandings that made me back off for a while - deal breakers, so to speak. I had pretty well decided it couldn't work and he came on

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A mature female fan of mine writes:"Maybe my beauty is the main reason I am approached so often - the guys find me attractive and sexy - I am not saying that is a universal experience for older women. There is no doubt that I am also approached because I am mature and intelligent (Many women, unfortunately, do not realize what a turnon these things are in a woman for a real man and end up

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