I want to dump my married boyfriend

Nina writes, "As a married woman in a relationship with a married man who is not committed 100% to me, I am realizing that I might never achieve full satisfaction from the relationship and he may not always be there for me. After talking to you for a while, I think I'll try to slowly get out from this relationship. No doubt it hurts very very much. It's the best path forward for the both of us and there is no need for me to die every day like this."

Married men are committed to their wives and children too

I was so happy to read your email that you are finally starting to realize that this relationship is not going to be fulfilling the way you want it and it is best to get out of it. And no, there is absolutely no reason for you to die for him and miss out on life.

Life is short and you want to make it work with what you have. There are certain things that you just cannot have (and this man is one of them) and it is futile to waste time on those. I mean I cannot be a movie star or football player or an astronaut or marry Megan Fox but that is OK because I can be what I am now and I have made peace with myself.

You can either try to see how you can have a more meaningful relationship with your husband or just take the bold step of leaving him and start a new life the way you want. Yes, it is risky and dangerous, but you have only one chance at life. I do not like talk of death and killing oneself; I want you to go for your dream with all that you got. If I understand it right, you seem to be financially independent. If you don't need your husband for financial support and if you don't love, what the hell are you doing wasting your time with him and being miserable each and every day.

So share the good news with him some day and tell me that you have dumped your boyfriend and considering leaving your husband or patched up with your husband. That will really make me happy because that is what will make you happy.