Dora, a Hispanic girl obsessed with Asian guys, says, "I am a nurse so I know plenty of Asian guys (there are a lot of Asians in the medical field). I also have lots of Asian friends; FRIENDS sadly :-(. Most of them date Asians; Asian girls are tough competition; they are so pretty. At the moment I think I'm going to take like a little time to get myself to a healthier weight. Maybe that way I can catch a pair of Asian eyes. I also am very shy, so it's very hard for me to talk to guys."

Well that is so great since you don't have to go looking elsewhere. But there is no need to wait till you lose weight because if you wait there will always be something or the other that you will see as a barrier. So go right ahead and start the game.

And yes, many Asians do gravitate towards Asian girls but isn't that true for Latin (or for that matter any race or ethnic group) men too? However, there is always someone who might like you; so do not get discouraged if you are perceived as an outsider and get rejected a few times.

And I hope you can overcome your shyness.

Marcela writes, "I absolutely adore Asian men. I want to marry one and having . Now my question is How do I find one? Are they attracted to Hispanic girls?"

Yes, as an Asian man myself I can say that I love Hispanic girls. Actually I am married to a Latina.

So, if you are interested in Asian guys then you need to be where Asian men are. If you live in a town with an Asian population, you have a place to get started by visiting some of the restaurants and nightclubs where Asians hang out. Attend cultural events of Asians and If there are no Asians where you live, I suggest online dating websites that have Asians.

How to date a Latina?

Mark, a 26-year old, lives and operates a business in Puerto Rico and has found instant attraction towards an 18-year old local Latina. "We have been dating (if you are single, try our free dating website) for only 2 weeks, but I have liked her since the moment my eyes saw her, and I am 99.9% sure that the feeling is mutual. I am ready to tell her how I feel about her. There are a lot of gringos here, and a lot of them come here for a few months and leave. Should I tell her that I am here for the long run and Puerto Rico is my home, and I am not going anywhere. Or should I just leave that out until later. Would you recommend I just follow my heart with this?" he asks.

It will be nice to hint about your long-term plan by talking about your business, the fact that you own it, and how you would love to spend the rest of your life in this beautiful island growing your business. I think considering that you are not a tourist, she knows that you are there long term.

Since you have been dating for just two weeks, I would say that you want to keep it subtle and only give hints at this stage rather than say "I like you so much I can marry you now." You know what I mean. Emphasize that you enjoy her company and would love to spend more time together with her. Then wait for her to respond. This should be more than enough for this date. As you get to know each other more, you can be more open about your emotions.