My boyfriend is a liar

Natalia writes, "I have been dating this guy for 9 years, and yes, we spoke about marriage. He comes up with every reason why he does not want to marry yet. He has been married twice already and he uses that one excuse a lot. I know for a fact that he is not true to me due to his ladies calling me on my cell. He always says they are only friends, my thing is if they are only friends why can't we sit down and have lunch together. Oh I will take care of that, that is his comeback. What should I think or do; he is such a liar and bad at it too."

Well, I am a bit surprised that you have chosen to be with a man for 9 years despite his unstoppable lies. I think you have simply allowed him to abuse and use you. At this time he just likes to be surrounded by several women at the same time so that he does not have to marry one and a be a responsible, loving husband.

He couldn't tell you clearer than this. He is not interested in marrying you and if you are still with you, it is because he thinks that you are stupid enough to believe that somehow things will change.

Please throw him out of your life; you have already wasted 9 years on him, do not waste a single moment on him from now on.