Single mom girlfriend afraid to marry me due to ex husband

Matt writes, "I have never felt more attracted to anyone in my life. She wants to be without me but she is addicted to me just like I am to her. See we live in a small town and she is divorced. Her ex husband is always looking for things to cause problems for her. So she worries a lot about her two kids, especially her youngest daughter getting taken away. I'm in love with her and she says she feels the same but we can't say it. We call it the L-word, and that it's too complicated. And oh she has a boyfriend that has been her best friend for a long time but she isn't attracted to him. I have tried everything and I'm really hoping you can help. We're madly in love but she is scared of the change. and it will be a big change. When we make love it is so passionate that I actually know why they say "making love" now. I've been with 15-20 women and in a 4-year relationship. Please help."

I read your email and my response is simple: be a man and tell her what you want and how you will take care of her. Right now she is afraid of her ex-husband and boyfriend because she is not sure that you will be there to help her manage the change. Yes, it is scary for a single mom but if she is confident that she need not worry about anything because you are a man with confidence and desire to do the right thing, she will be yours.

If what you write is true, women like this may be impossible to find and if you don't get her, you will beat yourself your whole life.