Women should support men's fantasies and fetishes

Mindy, a woman in her 70s, ran into an interesting man. "The 51 year old I have been online dating for a month has proposed. I am amazed how quickly our relationship has progressed. It is not that he could not have others - he is a jet pilot, 6'4", very good looking and well set up financially. He says I am the first woman he has ever been able to talk freely with about his fantasies/fetishes. I am not easily shocked and always work at being authentic in relationships. I am also willing to make these experiences real for him as long as my boundaries are respected. I truly like him and we will be meeting soon. We both have been married and divorced some years ago. Apparently he has always been attracted to older women - I am 20 years older than him. I think the acceptance I give him of who he is and what he prefers is a very powerful attraction to him and turns him on enormously. I want him to be able to express himself freely and explore with him what pleasures him."

Regarding relationship with this man, it appears that you are off to a good start. I am aware of the age difference here but with your energy level you will do just fine. What many people know in their hearts is that if they can establish that special connection with someone by sharing their innermost fantasies and secrets, they have found a soulmate. So do what you feel like and let the events take their course.