| There are several excellent books and websites
that you can use. You and your girlfriend need to ask
many questions before tying the
knot. Because no matter how much love two people feel for each other, if compatibility score is low, you are increasing the possibility of a divorce.
(Related article: How
to end a long-term relationship?) Once you have thought everything through and developed a list of options, you must share your thoughts with your girlfriend in an honest manner. If you are at this stage in your relationship, she is probably aware of the problems, so she should not be surprised. One of the options that you should definitely propose is that both of you try to salvage the relationship in three or six months (or whatever time frame makes sense for you). This way you both will have a chance to
fix your mistakes and rebuild the
relationship.
Despite all the
ease of finding a relationship these days, we know of millions of people who keep trying and never find the ONE. Since you are somewhat there, it is much better to work on what you already have rather than abandoning everything and starting over. Despite best efforts by you, if you feel at the end of the time that you gave yourself, that things are not working out, you can walk away with the feeling that did your best. And no matter what, be a good father to your
child!
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