How to use your body language to attract a man

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Reading body language

It can be useful in romance

By Jim Collin

While it sounds like a cliché, but a picture is worth a thousand words. However, you must be able to read and interpret a picture before you can draw any meaningful conclusions and act upon them. Remember that everyone is "communicating" even without a single word being uttered. So if we are smart to read one's body language, we can get a good understanding of what is going on in that person's mind. Or in other words, that information is powerful.

While being able to read and interpret body language comes in handy in all aspects of life, it is particularly useful in romance, seduction, and relationships. When you meet someone for the first time or when you discussing a serious matter or you suspect that your partner is cheating or hiding something from you, sometimes the body language can give away the secret. Or at least you can get a good idea that the other person is not telling the truth.

On a more positive note, when you can read the other person's body language, you can read if she or he is giving out positive signals. A woman who is wishing in her heart that you would buy her a drink or ask to dance with her may not say so but if you are good at reading her body language, you will notice that this is exactly what she may be saying with her demeanor. (Related article: How to reduce shyness among women?)

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Yes, there are some signs that are pretty obvious and almost everyone seems to talk about them, I do not believe that you need to memorize them. Plus, the gestures vary by location. What people do in New England makes no sense in Louisiana. What I am going to give here are broad concepts that you should try to understand and then when you try to read a person's body language, focus on his or her gestures and put them in a broader context. You will soon realize that you have a fair and accurate understanding of what he or she is really thinking:

Posture: The #1 representation of one's mind. How is the person holding himself/herself? Does he/she come across as confident/shy/ defensive/scared/aloof/ interested? Are the arms open in a welcoming manner or closed with the message "Leave me alone".

Eyes: As the say, "Eyes are the window into the mind". Look for signs of nervousness, interest, passion, desire, aloofness, boredom, etc. Make eye contact for just 4 seconds and you will see what is going on.

Mouth: First of all, what is the emotion here? You know we all force ourselves to smile or laugh once in a while but we also know very well what is a genuine smile/laugh. And remember this, when we smile genuinely, there is that part of the brain that is genuinely in great spirits, or in other words, we are ready to connect with other people around us.

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