Women need to decide when...
By Imfwama Wotela
I strongly believe that physical intimacy is special and it should not be used as a tool
by men to enslave women. A
woman should know who she wants to be intimate with. Once we allow ourselves as women to be enslaved, then we will lose our power to the men. This is what breaks us and make us look so foolish in the end.
Women have succumbed to the
demands of men for physical intimacy and enslaved themselves to the point that they feel bound, obligated to stick to the man as they believe it was for love.
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On the other hand,
sometimes a man is not connected and it’s a one-off
thing for him, and its over. It had no meaning.
Women are emotional beings unlike men. I believe a woman is all wired up and everything is connected. We also take longer to
heal over a
heart-break. Do not allow the words “I love you” or “You are beautiful” to mislead you. Love goes with care, respect, and sacrifice. A woman should use her head when it comes to
men want only physical intimacy from a woman it means that they will go to any length to get it. So why not use this extra knowledge to your advantage? Don’t give in easily. Women, love you bodies and respect them as they are valuable.
Physical intimacy as a celebration of love, is
perfect, and we should all indulge in it when the
time and the person is right. (Related
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When a man sees that you know what you want he will respect you and treat you the way you deserve to be
treated: as a woman of substance, not an object for use and to be discarded. That way you maintain your power. Know what you want in a man and when you actually need him in your life. Don’t get messed up. Move with your head high as you walk in this world,
confidence, knowing who you are. Let them respect you.
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There is time for everything, to
married, educated, learn, heal, and to grow. What a woman wants is to be loved, appreciated, respected, and protected by her husband –
a man that she will give herself physically. (Related:
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The bottom line is that a woman has to be principled at all times. It’s not worth the risk. You deserve much more in this life.
So try your best to find your Prince Charming and then
celebrate your love with him. But till then, save
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