Seduction techniques for couples

Seduction techniques for couples
How about lingerie and role-play?

When a couple is young or their relationship is "young," they want to be together all the time. Only thing they think about is how they can be in bed more often. Or in other words, no seduction is needed. The couple is so much into each other and discovering each other, that things just happen without even trying. (Related article: Libido differences among couples with large age gap)

Things change over time, though, and that is when we hear questions like How to spice it up in the bedroom? But not all women have similar problems. Some women just don't realize that if they do not fulfill the fantasies of their partner, they might be jeopardizing the relationship.

Anastasia asks us, "They guy that I'm in a relationship with is a law enforcement officer and he works all the time, so when we do make love it is intense, but he asks me to wear different things to make him just want me more. I never do it, though, and I am afraid that he might find someone else if I don't do it. I was just wondering why are some guys like this. He even wants to take me shopping for some of the things he would want to see me in because he said it is something about what makes a man want a woman even more. What should I do?" (Related article: How to please a man?)

All men are different and I see nothing unusual or strange in him at all. It is very common among both women and men to have fantasies. You have not provided details but men sometimes like their lover to dress in certain types of lingerie or some men even like a certain outfit (e.g. teacher/student, flight attendant, or doctor/patient). It makes life in the bedroom more exciting and spicy for couples. Many people call it role play and it is fairly common in almost all cultures. The idea is that for a short period of time you assume a certain role and act it out. It can actually be a lot of fun too. Some couples go as far as to prepare the script and follow it like a movie. (Related article: Role play for a better marriage)

I can understand why you might be reluctant because many women think that this is somehow not normal. On the contrary, it is very healthy. I always recommend it to couples when they have run out of ideas for making love. It is a great way to seduce your partner too. You should give it a try since it can really make things exciting in the bedroom. If you have some inhibitions then try to get rid of them little but little and let him know how you feel so that he will guide you along. So when you do go shopping with him, if he knows about your inhibitions, you can start off with something simple before you move on total role play. (Related article: Control a man wearing feminine lingerie)

Indeed, you are right to be concerned about his seeking to satisfy his fantasies elsewhere. There are nightclubs that have entertainers that will do that for him, and in my opinion, it will be much better if you were his fantasy and not some unknown exotic dancer.

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