Dating a single parent

Dating a single parent

Picture of a mother with her two charming kids. Bob writes, "I am 27 year old with a good job and loving heart. I just got out of a two-year relationship with an older woman with two kids. It's been really hard adjusting back to the single life since I have no kids of my own, and I grew so attached to these kids that I considered them as my own. Whenever I run into her or the kids, I feel a surge of emotions and cannot stand the fact that I cannot play with them any more. The relationship was ended by her since she needs space, was not happy and has not been for a while. Is there any hope for me? At times I think I am too nice of a guy to find a good woman. What can nice, quiet guys do for love? I hate jumping from relationship to relationship. What advice can you give me on this?"

Indeed, things go wrong all the time even in a perfect relationship and it does not mean that you will never find love again. Actually, based on what you describe, you are a "dream man" for any woman out there. (Related article: Ryan Seacrest and Teri Hatcher)

There is a myth that "nice guys finish last." Now, unless your definition of a nice guy is a shy guy, it is only a myth. Actually, we receive dozens of messages each month from women who run into jerks more often than into nice guys. They spend money and time to find men that are like you - financially stable, loving, and great with kids. So I don't think you need help with how to date, so just go ahead and keep trying - I am confident that another woman will see the beauty in you and give you what you deserve. (Related article: Hooking up with an old flame)

My personal advice to people after they breakup is that they move on (unless it is a divorce and person has a legal right to visit her/his children) and let the other person also start a new life. I can understand your attachment to the woman and/or her kids but it is best for you to leave the past behind, find a new relationship, and get on with your life. Your next girlfriend will not like that you are attached to an ex's kids. (Related: How to get rid of relationship baggage)

In the meantime, take some time to hang out with your friends and family. And I am sure that if you have kids in your extended network of friends and family, the parents will be more than happy to have you as a babysitter while they take a weekend or evening off. Trust me, all you need to bond with any kid is patience, smiles, and a child-like curiosity.

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