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Dating in
your thirties
Open you mind to possibilities
 About a year ago the popular TV hostess Oprah Winfrey had a show on dating. She cited statistics that dating and marriage for women after 35 is very difficult; so difficult in fact that the probability of being hit by lightning was much higher. If this is true or not, we do not know, but we do know that an attractive, nice and kind woman will always attract someone if she markets herself the right way.
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someone ten years younger) Search for a soul mate
There are millions of good guys out there who want to
meet a nice girl to spend the rest of their lives with; you just have to go and get yours. Just a few decades ago the girls of the town will attend parties and church activities where they were supposed to find Mr. Right to date and eventually marry. If the strategy failed for these girls they were condemned to solitude the rest of their lives. And of course, there was an understanding of how Mr. Right should be.
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Right does not come by UPS. You gotta find
him)
We are now out of the small town and of the small-town mentality. Mr. Right has to be a person with whom we can share our lives and at least some of our dreams, and mutually make each other happy, and hopefully, prosperous. Is this your definition of Mr. Right? Or does he have to be of a certain height,
weight,
color,
race, background,
age,
religion, educational level, occupation, live in a certain place, etc.? The list can go on and on and on. You have to ask yourself, Am I over with the small-town mentality? Do I really need all these characteristics or are they some baseless characteristics that someone put in my mind? What do I really want? Be very specific, because this information will be very useful for you. If you know what you want in your
soul mate, you will know what to look for. (Related
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It is OK to desire a certain person with specific characteristics, but we should not limit ourselves to what we have been conditioned to think a potential mate should look like. If you do this, you are making your chances smaller. So just keep your mind open and do not reject someone just because he does not fit your desired profile. Give him a chance.
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