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Dating tips for women to find soul-mates

Be friendly, funny, and down-to-earth

By Lisa Kramer

Long, long time ago in a faraway galaxy, women, specially the ones that attended the church, were told to sit and wait for the special man of their lives to come to them. God or Destiny will bring it to them at the right time. This was, and still is, true. I have no doubt that it can happen, but you have more possibilities to make it happen if you act in a deliberate manner.

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Depending on your age, the ways to meet a man vary, but in general, the more approachable you are the more men you are going to meet. By approachable we mean how friendly you are, how funny you are, and how down-to-earth you are. When people can easily approach you, you don’t have to do anything else. Just stand up and smile and men take care of everything else (unless your dream boy is shy). (Related article: Go slow in online dating)

How to be friendly?

What does it mean to be friendly? My pastor the other day said that we are surrounded by friendly people, but it is still so difficult to make friends. For some reason this does not happen everywhere. In Italy, for instance, it is very easy to talk to people and make friends with total strangers in public places. In the US, however, we do not become friends even with our co-workers and neighbors. We cannot change American culture right away, but we can try to be sincerely friendly and be open to have friends. (Related: Jessica Simpson unable to forget Nick Lachey)

How to be funny?

You do not have to have the attributes of a standup comedian, but if you take the sunny side of things you will always find a reason to laugh. We tend to gravitate towards funny Picture of a beautiful African American woman in a short dress and boots.

Picture of a beautiful African American woman in a short dress and boots.

people, we like to laugh, and we are happier when we laugh.

If you are going though depression or just do not feel right about yourself, it is difficult to be funny without being sarcastic. You need to deal with the pain inside you, but while you are dealing with it, try to find something to laugh at every day, read a joke, tell a joke to your friends, read something funny, try to watch something funny on TV, etc. Learn to laugh at yourself in a healthy way. A funny easygoing person is always popular.

How to be down-to-earth?

We live in a world were materialism seems to have taken over the meaning of life. Success is defined by how wealthy you are. Some of our celebrities are total airheads that look like Barbies: plastic and brainless (Are you thinking Paris Hilton?). Yeah, that type of celebrities. They are there to entertain you and it is OK to like them for that reason but you do not have become like them. With this culture, sometimes we forget that we are people and we are not defined by the clothes we wear or the money we have. We do not need to be arrogant or be showcasing our talents and awards all the time. Make your man and your friends feel good with you. Leave the bullshit out. (Related article: How to catch attention of man)

In conclusion, my suggestion is that if you are happy with yourself and your life, you have higher possibilities to attract more people to you. You also have more possibilities to develop a happy, long-term relationship. These qualities are more important than beauty and academic achievements. So, smile, be happy, and you will attract others.

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