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Dating techniques for women with flat-chests

Does having a flat chest diminish your chances of dating?

By Pierre Coda

Beth from Columbus, Ohio considers herself to be have a chest as flat as the plains in which she lives. The sad news is that she has never had a real relationship. "I suspect that when people find out, they run away; and I don't want to have plastic surgery," she writes. "Is it really true that you have no one to date because you don't have a great body?" (Related article: How to develop positive body image?)

Image of a gogeous woman who also happens to be flat but proud and ready for dating

Despite the widespread belief that such women are not attractive to men or they have a hard time finding a date, the reality is that women seem to be more obsessed with their physical assets than men are. According to research available, 30% of women are unhappy with their breast size. Yes, men do like busty women, but that is very subjective and comprises many different aspects of personality. (Related article: Men do like women with small chests)

What are your options for dating?

While plastic surgery is always an option, many women are still very afraid to have it. The reasons are simple: plastic surgery can be too expensive for some women and there are a lots of unknown. It must be mentioned, however, that only plastic surgery provides result that are dramatic and almost perfect. No doubt you have to consider all the health risks associated with plastic surgery (though they have gone down significantly over the years as the technology has evolved) but if you want to transform your body completely then plastic surgery (specifically, a breast augmentation procedure) is the best alternative.

Should you have breast augmentation plastic surgery?

That is more of an ethical question. Many women find that plastic surgery is not such a great idea. Many men and women also do not find 'artificial, but large' to be as appealing as 'small, but natural'. Research by MSNBC again shows that over 70% of men are perfectly satisfied with how their wives or girlfriends looks. The philosophy behind "Flat, but proud" is very sound and appeals to millions of women and men. In fact millions of men actively seek dates with such women, because they find them genuine and confident about who they are. (Related article: Self esteem issues among women)

How to go about the dating game?

Not in the usual way. If you are in a roomful of drop-dead, gorgeous women with plastic surgery-enhanced bodies, then you are at a disadvantage. What you want to do, on the other hand, is to avoid such places to find a date. In fact you want to seek out opportunities for you to show off your other assets: maybe you are a painter or singer or artist or cook or whatever. You want the connection to be established through other means rather than physical beauty so that the relationship will be based on these attributes. (Related link: Romance and relationships tips)

Here are a few steps that you can take to find a date:

Use online dating tools. They allow you to operate in a less competitive environment and you can be very specific about what kind of dates you want. Plus, no one judges you right away on how you look.
Join voluntary organizations and actively participate in activities where you can show your talents (e.g. if you are a painter, do not just paint at home and store your work in the basement. Join an art gallery and do whatever you can to exhibit your work. Hang out with other painters and those who admire painting).
Be direct and honest about your situation. Once you have accepted the reality there is no need to fake and hide. Let your body show as it is and see what happens.

Chances are that you will find a date with the right kind of guy.

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