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Dating tips
for divorced people
How to deal with exes?
Cindy
was widowed two years ago,
found a wonderful man, and they now
live together. She says, "He considers me
his fiancée, but I am having difficulty facing
to the reality that he has been in a
relationship for so long. They are in the
process of putting up their house for sale and
dealing with disposal of other assets. I was
married to the same man my whole life and this
and this is my first relationship in decades. I
constantly think of their relationship and try
to
combat jealousy (How
to overcome jealousy). When we marry, what kind of
relationship with this ex-wife should I
force myself to accept?"
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We live
in a world with 50% divorce rate - that means we all
will have relationships with people that have living
ex-spouses and/or children. Indeed, some
divorces and
breakups are ugly (good news for the next
partner), but in many cases, the
end of the relationship is not so bad. In many
cases, due to
children/property issues, ex spouses (Go back to ex) must stay
in contact.
What
this means is that you will need to live with the
fact that the love of your life has a past and that
will sometimes creep into your life. In fact, to
somehow imagine that a
divorce or a breakup erases the past - well,
that is impossible, even if it ended on a sour note
(but remember there are more sweet memories of a
relationship than bad ones). |
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