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Shyness
among females
Simple tricks to
overcome your shyness and become an expert flirt
Shyness may be a virtue in some cases, but
mostly, it just gets in the way of going ahead in life, particularly in your romantic life.
When it comes to flirting, shyness definitely gets in the
way. There are many good resources on overcoming shyness and becoming more social,
assertive and
confident. But we want to talk today about a more non-traditional way to
overcome shyness, so that you are naturally more flirtatious even without trying. One of the reasons some people are shy is lack of confidence. In case of women, it can be related to
lack of acceptance of their bodies
and lack of awareness of their own female power. Or in the jargon of “New Age,” it is the “Lack of acknowledgment of the goddess within.”
(Related article: How
to reduce shyness among women?)
Female power: Awaken your inner wild side
We all have it, no matter how shy we are. Do you know that there are studies that show that during ovulation, we are more flirtatious than during the rest of the month and that during that period people find us more attractive? How attractive we are to the opposite sex is related to the messages we send. If you send the message “I am insecure about my body and perhaps not so
good in bed,” you may not be as desirable as the hot babe in the group.
(Related article: How
to make a man notice you?) The hot babe is secure about herself and her ability to seduce, and she looks as if she wants to have fun. She can be the aggressive Pamela
Anderson type or feminine Marilyn Monroe type. We all know people that are perceived as beautiful, and on close examination, they are not. Usually these people are simply comfortable with their bodies and exude self-confidence. When we
flirt we send the message “I like you” to the opposite sex. To send this message usually requires self-confidence and contentment with our bodies.
There are several
good resources on flirting and you may want to read them. We at
LuvCube.com think we have discovered a very easy way to develop natural flirting without effort. We noticed that usually
people who enjoy dancing are also good flirters. They are more comfortable with their bodies and are more comfortable moving in a sexy way. If they
dance tango, salsa, meringue or other energetic dances, they are even more flirtatious than ballet dancers. Maybe this is why the
Brazilians are so sexy.
Other great dance is the
belly dance. Bellydance requires being very happy with yourself. In
belly dancing, you do not need to have a great body or great attitude. But you need to be in touch with your feminine side.
Belly dance can, therefore, be a lot of fun and easy to learn for women of all types of bodies. If you think you need to add more flirtatious attitude to your personality and do not feel like reading lots of books, perhaps, a few
dance lessons could be all you need.
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Bellydancing
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Dating
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underarm odor to attract a mate
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How to approach girls if I am shy
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