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The
trend of mature women being more receptive to dating much younger men and these guys getting attracted to such women is now well established. But how do you go about finding the right match?
Matthew, a 22 year old college student is
desperately seeking a mature woman in the Philadelphia area. "I find older women
(Demi
Moore and Ashton Kutcher relationship) incredibly
attractive and have tried hard to find one
online but with no luck. I was hoping maybe you could help me," he writes.
Unfortunately, we do not have a
matchmaking business but the key for anyone in finding an
intergenerational relationship will be to go where mixing of people of different ages is possible. For instance, there are already several
dating websites that focus exclusively on intergenerational
relationships. The other piece of advice we always give for dating is that a hunter goes where the prey is
(Women
who like only younger men). For instance, a woman interested in meeting baseball fans needs to be where these guys hang out -
baseball games, bars, and the like. Similarly a
man looking for an older woman needs to go where the mature women are. For instance, work part time in a location frequented by mature women. A store like Chicos is an example. You get the idea.
(Related:
Will a younger man dump a mature lover
later)
The other option is to go to the right chat rooms where women in your target age bracket might gather. Here is an
article on how to meet a date in a chat
room. And if someone asks your age, disclose your correct age and also the fact that you are
attracted to older
women.
And finally, ask help of a mature friend if you can speak to her/him confidentially. Maybe she/he can introduce you to the right person. |
