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The situation where a
former lover wants to come back into your life is one very common and unfortunately most women fall prey to this trap especially in a situation where you find a woman taking back a
man who abused her both physically and verbally. The issue of dealing with a former lover can be very interesting but it can be a great challenge when the former lover was abusive.
(Related article: Should
you take your Ex back?)
In some cases it is straightforward as we may fall back in love with the person we
dated in high school, former husband or simply someone you dated before and things did not work out then. This is so because of the powerful forces of feelings and emotions - what I call mysteries that we may try to define but sometimes find hard to understand and explain. As beautiful as these mysteries may be, what is important is to be in control of them so that you make the right decisions.
(Related article: Dealing
with an Ex - Advice for women)
We all wait patiently hoping, dreaming and believing that our loved ones will change and one day come back to us. It is the reality of this dream coming true that makes us embrace our former love. It is such a beautiful thing to see a person change from what they used to be and to become a much better person. It is like seeing a lost and rebellious child come back home and saying to her parents that she wants to come back home.
Rebuilding and getting over lost love is not an easy task especially for a woman. It takes a while to heal and believe in yourself again.
Sheryl Crow talked about her love for
Lance Armstrong months after they
broke up. Being in love is a wonderful feeling and if you can get a second chance at it with the same person then grab the opportunity, do your best and with care aim to make it last. |
