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It can be a very effective way to explore about another person’s attitude and personality. These unions have a unique bond, they usually last longer, and when handled appropriately, both gain a great deal. Or in other words, healthy friendship with men for women can help them have better romantic relationships.
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you date your best friend?)
I had a chance to talk to a few female friends of mine on different occasions about this interesting topic and they gave me very informative and funny reasons as to why they preferred
friendships with men
rather than women. Some of the reasons were that men were better listeners and good advisors and that they don’t have time to waste on
meaningless small talk or gossip. Others went on to say that they would rather share an apartment with a guy than a female so that they don’t have to put up with silly differences,
mood
swings, and late payments of
bills. Furthermore, that if a man wants something, he will just say it and you won’t have to hear it from someone else. Another friend concurred saying that it was true because two years ago she had a one night stand with her friend when she had a bit too much wine. She has never heard of the incident from anyone else and neither does his girlfriend know.
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date into a relationship)
However, the only problem that they have to face is that people would talk very negatively about them especially their female peers who would label them all kinds of names like ‘Tomboy’ for hanging around men instead of their female friends. It also affects their dressing as they tend to
dress more like guys and start to look
masculine, which is not so good for a lady. In any case I don’t necessarily see anything wrong with this kind of friendship
(Revive
relationship with an old flame) but I suppose
it is just individual preference as the reasons vary from one individual to the next. It’s an idea worth considering because you can end up being the only woman in the army, engineering, medical class or your new workplace one day. |
