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Dating in
your thirties
How to look younger?
By Lisa Kramer
We
are discussing how a woman can find
a relationship in her 30s. OK you are not 20 anymore, your
skin is starting to show signs of
aging, or perhaps, you have neglected it for a long time and it looks tired. But this does not mean that you are so bad that no one can be attracted to you or you will not be able to
find a relationship. We are sure you have a lot else to offer; we all do.
 With that said, we cannot deny the reality that men are attracted to younger or
younger looking
women; it is just Nature’s way
of ensuring that the babies are healthy. So what can you do? By just doing a few simple things you can actually look and feel younger and you don't have to spend a fortune with
plastic
surgeons.
So let us spend a minute to discuss why it is important for you to look younger if you are looking for a relationship. Men are attracted to the fecundity signs in women such as
large
breasts,
curvaceous hips, strong legs and other signs of youth such as
radiant
skin. We cannot turn the clock back, but we
can definitely work to look our best without going crazy
with diets. An expert calls this the 'youthification
process'. We have to have some of these characteristics to
attract more men.
(Related article: Find
a younger man and make him notice you)
The easiest way to look younger is to dress with clothing that flatters you, have good posture, and
take care of your body image. The objective of this article is not to teach these, but we will discuss some of these aspects below. We all know of someone who is always trying to look younger, by dressing like a teenager, acting young, etc. This does not work and can even turnoff some men who want someone who acts and behaves her age but looks younger. Instead, we have to learn to dress with modern-style clothing and look younger, but this does not mean that we have to shop in the teens’ department.
- Smile frequently, and be young at heart.
(Related:
How to whiten your teeth?)
- You do not have to be of a
certain age to find the love of your life, but having the right attitude helps. Unhappiness with ourselves is visible and a turnoff to most men. So
develop a positive attitude and it will show in everything that you do.
- There are many aspects of our lives that can make us unhappy: either our past relationships, our
financial
situation, our jobs or just the fact that we are single. We
 can concentrate on negative aspects and be miserable or be happy with all the things we have and work strategically towards achieving the ones we do not have yet.
- Not all of our desires will become a reality, but we should
try our best and accept when life does not go our way. Salma Hayek told Oprah in an interview last year, “I left my successful acting career in
Mexico to risk everything for the uncertainty to start a career in Hollywood. I worked hard and I did not listen to everybody who told me I should not do it, but you know what, if I would not have succeeded, it would have been OK.” We have to
try to reach our
dreams. We may not always succeed, but we will be at peace knowing we did our best. If we take the journey of life as an adventure, we are going to be happy even when success comes not in the way we expected it.
If you
want a partner either to get married or to have fun, you can get him and have fun while getting it. We have to use all the tools that are now available to us, for example,
online
dating, and also do the traditional things like going
to parties. It requires effort, and an effort with a strategic plan can be even more effective.
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