How to meet right kind of men

How to meet the right kind of men?
And leave behind the ones that don't work out

Meeting new people for shy women is not easy. Not only do they need good conversation starters, they also need to be able to carry on a conversation, which isn't always easy if they run into a shy guy.

For instance, Leticia writes, "I followed your tips on how to start a conversation but after we got started, I didn't know what to say because this guy would only respond to what I asked and that's it. How do I carry on a conversation and get to know a man the very first time I meet him."

There can be many reasons why you would end up in a situation like this - the guy was shy too, in a bad mood, not interested in talking to someone he doesn't know, already has a girlfriend and doesn't want to make her jealous, etc. So the key is not to be discouraged by a bad experience but learn from it.
And you will also find that despite your best efforts, some people will just give answers and not want to carry on the conversation - there is not much that you can do about it. So who is next? That's the question you need to ask yourself. (Related: Eva Longoria Tony Parker breakup)

That is why it is good to have a list of simple questions to ask in your mind so that you can drive the conversation in case the guy doesn't know what to do. And here is the secret to talking to men - talk about him. We all love to talk about ourselves. So let us say you meet a guy outside the classroom in a university after an Asian history class. You could always start off by asking why he chose the course. Did he study it before? Has he read any other books on Asian history? What other courses he has chosen? What does he plan to do with his Asian history knowledge? Does he watch Asian movies? What about Asian cuisine? What is his favorite?

It is important that you also add your thoughts and commentary so that it does not appear as if he is being interrogated. My hope is that this should lead to a lively discussion but if they guy only responds without asking you any questions, then he may not be the right man in the first place. Leave him and move on to someone who is merely waiting for a signal from you. Remember, many men actually like shy girls.

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What do you think?