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How to forget the pain of
my breakup?
Even though I got dumped, I still miss him and cannot move on |
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Christina
broke up with her boyfriend after he
grew apart from her and
pushed
her out of the relationship. She never
wanted to leave him because she genuinely loved him and
dreamed of getting married to him. When she finally
announced that she has decided to bow to his wishes, he hugged
her, gave her a goodbye kiss, and walked her to the door where
her parents were waiting to pick her up. She writes, "It has
been very hard for me since I
ended the relationship. A lot of things remind me of him and
I do miss him. I wish I can
get over him and try and
start my life again but I am finding it hard when I am used
to having him around and being there. I'm so tempted to pick up
the
phone and text him but I stop myself from doing it. It's
very hard for me but I restrain myself from doing it. Hopefully
I will
get over him some day. Any thoughts?" |
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 I
am not surprised how you are feeling, but if I can read
between the lines it appears that he has not contacted
you either. That is not a good sign. I have heard from
men who have literally kissed the feet of the women,
apologizing, and begging them to
come back. If he has not done anything in last one
week or so, I have the feeling that he is so buried in
his mess that he has no place for you in his life right
now or he has concluded that his life with you is
essentially over. |
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It is not going to be easy, but
if you have controlled yourself all this time, I am proud of
you. You are a strong girl for having the
courage to leave him when you were well past the welcome
phase and then to resist the temptation to embarrass yourself by
calling him. I am very modern in my thinking and believe that
men and women are equal in all respects, but I still believe
that a guy should still beg at all times -- it is just so much
more romantic. So keep yourself occupied and do not even
worry about a
new relationship for a while. You need a lot of time to
heal from this trauma and time is the best healer. |
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Related:
How to breakup without hurting your partner |
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