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Should you go back to an ex?
Absolutely
not, particularly if you are now in a
relationship
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We
have another story of a man who wants
to
revive a relationship with an ex
after he saw her
old flame. He writes, "We were
highschool sweethearts but after a
two-year relationship, her family
relocated and we lost touch. Though
she lives on a different continent
now, somehow we met each other after
20 years. We were talking about the
old times, about our
sex life, and caught up on other
things. It felt as we were never apart
and she was always mine. Since then we
have been in touch by
email but she recently told me,
that she is trying to go away from me
because if we revive this
relationship, we will be in trouble
later. I was a bit surprised
because just a few months back she
told me that she can give everything
to me. But now she is trying to go
away from me. What I have to do
to get her love? Now I am
deeply in love with her. We
are both
married and have kids and live
with our own families. Please advise.
I need her." |
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We
have dealt with similar situations in
the past and our response has always
been the same: so get on with your
lives and leave the past behind. What
did not happen then - well, do not
force it to happen now under a new set
of circumstances. While platonic
friendship with an ex is fine, a
romantic relationship with an ex
is a problem.
I
think what she told you was in the
heat of the moment and she may be
rethinking the whole issue now. I
would strongly advise you to just try
to forget her (it may not be easy;
Jessica Simpson did not forget Nick
Lachey for a long time)
considering that you are both married,
live so far apart, and she is not
interested in ruining either yours or
her marriage. And it also seems that
your current
marriage is not going well. You
would be better off by
working closely with your wife to fix
that rather than thinking of an ex. |
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Related:
How to deal with an ex?
Uma Thurman a role model for
relationship with an ex
How to forget your ex |
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