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So when he heard from Laura that her boyfriend was not paying attention to her, we were not surprised. She writes, "My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years but lately he seems less interested in me. I think my boyfriend is cheating. What can I do to get his attention back?"
(Related article: Relationship
with younger wife)
It is important to understand that any
relationship matures over time and the passion and the
excitement that you will see during Month One is not going to
last. Things will be different in a few months, in a few years, and in a few decades. So take a look at the following points below:
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Just because someone is less interested in you does not always mean that he is cheating. A person can
commit adultery and still show tremendous interest in you. Surprising
though it might seem, it is perfectly possible for a man or a woman to have two passionate relationships at the same time and no one can
ever find out.
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Do you know what else is going on in his life? Is it something at work or with his family or
financial issues that maybe bothering him?
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Do you guys have any other
issues developing in your
relationship?
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If you answer all these questions in a way that you think there is nothing that should make him behave like this, then
just talk to
him. Tell him that you feel he is not paying enough attention to you. What is wrong? What can you do to bring your relationship back on track? May be he has just taken you for granted now that you have been in a steady relationship. Once you point it out to him, you guys can work out the issues without any problem at all.
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If he tells you the reason then you have to work on whatever it is as a couple.
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If he is evasive then you know there is the problem that you suspect.
He could be cheating or may have just lost interest in you and may want the
relationship to simply
end. In that case, it is best to simply let him move and so should you. Confronting him may not be of much help at this stage.
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