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A woman is a special being who yearns to be loved and appreciated and is not as difficult as men perceive them to be.
So here are some of the things that a
woman wants:
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Loved and told
that she is beautiful just the way
she is. She wants to hear the
words "I love you"
often. Mind you they don’t get
tired of hearing this.
- They want
honesty
and sincerity. Women record every
detail or word they hear and that
is why they are able to narrate a
story or an event accurately. So
if you say that you are working
late, ensure that you are working
late. If you change your plans, do
tell them. What is worse is that
they even recall what you said or
did five years ago, even though
they may not tell you. Put the
heat or repeat it and you will
hear the speech. That is what
brings us to the next point.
(Related:
How to get love from a man?)
- Learn to say you
are sorry. I don’t think you
will lose a bone, an eye or kill
your
self-esteem by saying you are
sorry. Saying sorry will ‘kill’
some of the stuff or baggage from
being stored up in a woman’s
mind. I believe if you say you are
sorry, then you have more guts.
- They are
insecure
beings who want to be assured and
appreciated often not only through
action but also words.
- They need you to
be there for them when they are
going through a rough patch.
- They are natural
talkers and want a man who will be
patient enough to give them time
to hear them. I was amazed when my
pastor said, among many other
things that, "Give your wife
at least 3 hours a day, that is 21
hours a week for her to talk to
you." Is that too much to ask
for, guys?
- They need to be
kept occupied with something i.e.
take them out,
go places and let
her know you enjoy her company.
- If you have had
too many meetings at the office
and been too occupied, let her
join you at dinner with your
clients that evening (if
appropriate) or invite her for a
drink after you are done with your
dinner (again, if possible); if
none of this works, pick up some
flowers on your way back home.
That should relax you both and she
will be very confident about
herself and know she met the right
guy who is not ashamed to be with
her in public.
- Needs lots of
affection and attention. With
these she can stay this
relationship even if there is no
monetary gain. For a woman, money
and material are secondary to love
and affection.
- A call or an
email or an instant message or an
SMS in the middle of the day to
just say "I was thinking
about you" etc. will charm
her.
These are the little things that you can do to avoid creating a nagging, bitter and unsatisfied woman.
If you think these are not important, another clever man will see that this woman lacks some or all of the above and he will do them and you will lose your woman.
Just like there are things men want from a relationship, so do women. The important thing is knowing each other’s needs and being able to sacrifice and meet them.
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