Better lover: tips and suggestions

Nick writes, "I have been in love with my girlfriend for years. She thinks it is time to be physically intimate. I just want to know what will make me a GREAT lover. While she has been with a few partner, I have not. Could you please help me?"

Well, first of all, you must make it special.

Suggestions to make it special for a woman

1. Pick an appropriate time so that you don't end up doing it in a hurry in a totally unplanned way.
2. Pick a place. We strongly recommend a romantic getaway.
3. Prepare for it: Get an appropriate outfit for yourself (and for her too if you truly want to charm her). You might also want to consider other bedroom supplies like massagers, aphrodisiacs, condoms, and kamasutra sets (both for precaution as well as to create the right ambience).

Suggestions to prepare yourself

1. It is perfectly natural to be nervous but since she is the experienced one you must let her take charge. She loves you and will be happy to guide you along. In no time, you will start to enjoy it.
2. While we do not think that you should go crazy studying, doing some research is not a bad idea. You will be able to enjoy yourself better and also please her as well.

Final thoughts

Remember, it is not an exam. So relax. Preparation will give you the confidence, but more importantly, be yourself. There is no need to impress her. If you are charming and affectionate, you will win her heart.

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