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Saturday, August 14, 2004

Bellydancing to please him

One of the most common questions women ask is, "How can I please my man?" Of course, there is no substitute to asking him what will please him or guess what he might like based on what he might have told you in the past or what you can learn from his behavior. But let me share my story of how I learned bellydancing to please my husband.

Last, we went to the Epcot Center in Disneyland for a short trip and while walking around, we walked into the Restaurant Marrakesh. We had never been to a Photo of a bellydance wearing a costumeMoroccan restaurant and had no idea what bellydancing was (coming from the Midwest). The lunch was, of course, delicious but what blew us away was the bellydancing show, which I could see that my husband enjoyed tremendously even though it is really a G-rated event.

When we returned I didn't think much about it but then on a whim I ordered a DVD called Cairo by Night Bellydancing and was absolutely enchanted by its music. I would often listen to its middle-eastern rhythms and when my husband listened to it, he liked it too. We also casually talked about the bellydancing show. While talking to a friend, Patricia, about losing weight, she mentioned that she has been trying to use the same DVD.

I found that Patricia was completely transformed wearing her bellydancing outfit and had learned a lot of the steps just by watching the DVD. The first thing I did when I got home was to order a bellydancing costume and the DVD. Within a matter of weeks after practicing secretly while my husband was not around, I felt confident that I was ready to put up a show for his birthday. I told him when he left in the morning for work that it would be great just to have a quiet dinner at home and he was fine with that.

Our family room has a little partition in the corner where we have created a small area for the family computer with a desk that also acts as a place for us to do the bills and take care of the paperwork. All dressed up in my costume and the DVD in the player with the remote control in my hand, I hid myself there when I saw my husband's car pull up in the drivway. When he stepped inside and did not hear my reply to his greeting, he grabbed a beer and collapsed on the sofa. With a bang, the music exploded and there I was in all my glory dancing for him. His eyes were glued to me and I could see how pleased he was with my bellydancing.

No need to mention that he had a memorable birthday in many ways. My recommendation to all the women: take a look at bellydancing. It is not as difficult as you think and you can learn it at home. Plus, you don't need to have a killer body. Just buy a DVD, get a costume, and you will become good enough in a matter of weeks to please him. I often dance for him now and it always makes the night special for us. Plus, bellydancing is a great workout.