Positive attitude is everything

I can not emphasize enough the importance of a positive attitude. Over the years I have found that what differentiates winners from losers and the rich from poor is a positive attitude. The losers see a rainy, depressing day; the winners see the rain feeding the garden so that flowers will bloom. The losers hate the snow; the winners admire its serene beauty and contemplate on Nature's powers.

I recently helped a wonderful woman who was just a victim of low self-esteem, and therefore, had a very negative attitude. With a little bit of help, she realized what she could do with her life if only she could convert all that negative energy into a positive attitude. Her boyfriend loves her, she is good-looking, and she is indeed very charming. What she doesn't have? More flesh on the bones.

Let me just reproduce her truly inspiring story and what she has decided to do with her life from now on. You can clearly see how positive attitude is developing inside her:

"I know for sure I wish to change that attitude/mentality of mine that is holding me back and I want more than anything to get out of this negative circle I have found myself trapped in! It is just that it is not as easy to do as it is to say. And living in this country where well-endowed ones - which ones also happen to be the majority in my race - is not making it any easier; not to mention all those"whatever-less" comments one gets now and then.

I know my boyfriend loves me, desires and likes me for who I am. He never stops saying and demonstrating it. However, it makes it a little hard to know that, while he likes all types of bodies in general and would never choose a woman based on such a shallow criteria as bust size, he generally considers a relatively large to be more impressive than small one.

Yet, it appears that - fortunately - this is a matter of no importance for him when it comes to falling in love or even just considering a woman to be generally beautiful and attractive. It is more him than me who wants us to make love all the time; and there have been many times I have caught myself refusing, making up excuses just to avoid getting undressed - therefore exposed... And it is always me who wants the lights off when making love (or doing it with half my clothes on) for the same reason.

Of course, I realize this is all just inside my brain, as my mate has never made any bad comments or complaints about how I look (the opposite is the case!) - but he has made hundreds about how I behave. Still, obvious as it might be, that it is only me and my own insecurities that the problem comes from. I find myself unable to get rid of all that trash and move on. I know you are right about everything you write in your e-book and I will not miss following your useful advice. Moreover, receiving such words from a mentor like you has been really helpful and encouraging. So, thanks again for helping me build a positive attitude inside me which I can already feel.

I am now really willing and making an effort to change my ways. I know this might take me some time and I also know I sometimes get confused and do not know what to do to help myself but I really want to stop sabotaging my own life and my right to live a beautiful, balanced and full life. Thanks a million times for helping me develop a positive attitude.

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