I hate my body
This seems to be what many women keep telling themselves all the time. There is nothing worse than that. When you don't like your own body you will never have the self-esteem and confidence as a woman to attract men. So when you will not find a relationship or destroy the one you have, you will get even more miserable. That is a vicious circle and you need to get out of it by seeking help with your self-esteem development.
Below are some comments that we reproducing from the emails that we have received. If you think like any of these women below, please stop doing so.
"I am 28 and have only size AA cups. Over the past 10 years I have become so insecure about my breast size and I hate myself to the a point that I am trying to look for ways to make myself totally 'disappear' from this world. I want to disppear but not be dead beacause I do not even want anyone to look at or touch me after I die!!! And, of course I find it VERY difficult to be in a relationship. I will finds thousands of reasons for not seeing a doctor or doing any annual medical check up because this will require me to take off my shirt! I was driving myself towards a very negative path every day until one day somebody told me that: If you do not love and accept yourself, who else in this world will love you and accept you? So, I started to face my body and am trying my best to accept what GOD gave me. I took off my shirt in front of my physician and discussed with him about my fear and my problem for the first time. And I started a relationship a couple of months ago and it is going well. Frankly, I am not totally out of the problem yet. I still need more time and more support!"
"I am bummed out that my body is not attractive and I have never really climaxed in whole life, no matter what I try."
"I am an A cup, 4'10" and 100 lbs. I don't even feel like doing outdoor stuff with my daughter because of this! It is totally destroying my life. I am consumed with thoughts and images of these "perfect women", and it's hurting all relationships I have. I want you guys to help me, if possible. I am at the end of my rope and have even fallen into a heavy depression over this."
"I have been obssessed with my body lately, don't know what's wrong with me. I have always been confident about myself. I'm thinking about taking birth contol pills, because one of my friends (32 A), has taken the pills and it caused an increase in her size to 32B. I don't know if it will work for me, please help."
"I am 27 years old and have been married for 8 years and have four children. I am very flat and I am so ashamed of my body. My husband says that I am fine but I don't feel that way. I am so jealous of women that have curvaceous bodies and it has hurt my marriage because I accuse my husband of looking at other women. I think it is lack of self esteem that is hurting me."